It was 1976 when I saw the movie “Fiddler on the Roof” for my first time in our drama class. One of the songs is called “Matchmaker” and it was a standing tradition to pre-arrange marriages between families in the Jewish culture. A person within the community made the suggestions and arranged the couples to marry. Love at first sight was not possible the parents had gone through the same thing themselves. As odd as the system may have sounded it worked.  Love is a choice not some feeling though feelings of love eventually enter in to prearranged marriages,  it is not always the giggles and cuteness. It is about caring for another individual. When I became a Christian I came to believe in the divine province of relationship, when Cupid is not busy pulling Santa’s sleigh around he usually does a great job with Christian couples.  Prior to giving my life to Christ,… Read moreMatchmaker, Matchmaker Don’t Burn Me.